Intimate Conversation Interview with Author Geletha Black

 

After having read an article that indicated that 65% of women cheat on their husbands and only 20% of women have ever experienced an orgasm, I figured that either women were too shy to speak up about their sexuality or men lacked the knowledge. This book was written as a reference manual for men in order to bridge the gap between the sexes due to their lack of knowledge of the inner workings of the female. In the book, I address dating fiascos, relationships disasters and marriage break-ups, whether it be because of pre-programming of boys and girls at a young age to fit into certain gender roles, the lack of "game", or the combination of both. I also address, in extensive detail, ways to achieve orgasms.

 

Most relationship books are geared towards women, leaving men floundering for essential information that they might not get otherwise. The reality is men want sex and women want good sex and most times men’s egos stand in the way of this significant desire.

 

 

Though I am not a certified relationship expert, I use examples of dating experiences from myself and others that I have encountered during my life and provide solutions on how those situations could have been handled differently. For example, a married male friend of mine had an affair with his assistant. This affair went on for approximately six months without his wife knowing. He was so comfortable with this woman and he even thought about leaving his wife for her. However, one day his wife received an anonymous letter from a co-worker of hers which stated that this person had seen her husband out and about with another woman.

 

When his wife confronted him, he was able to weasel his way out of it. He told her that if it was a co-worker, why didn’t they just confront her instead of writing an anonymous letter and he led her to believe that it wasn’t him. After this ordeal, he got nervous and told the mistress that they should cool it for a while. She didn’t take it very well, because the next day he received a call on his cell phone from her. She stated that she was on her way to his wife’s job and that she had a gift for her. He got very nervous and stated that she wouldn’t do that, but she kept him on the phone as she went to the front desk of the office and asked for his wife. He hopped in his car and drove frantically to his wife’s job. He sat in the parking lot and called his wife from his cell phone.

 

When she answered, she told him that it was over. The gift that she left for his wife was pictures of him and his mistress having oral sex. In this situation, there is no real solution. However, bringing situations like this to light can possibly deter men from making similar mistakes. One of the major problems that men face is feeling that they have to fit a certain mold in order to be considered a real man. That mold can lead to problems such as this and others that are detailed in this book.

 

 

Question 1: Why the title is Have You Ever Wanted to Choke a Bitch? 

Question 2: Why this is Geletha's motto:  "an orgasm a day makes the bitch go away." Explain your position.

 

Question 3: What do you feel you can help people overcome the pitfalls in our intimate relationships?

 

Question 4: Geletha explains why she stated that a major problem in any relationship is lack of honesty. What do you think about the lack of honesty in our relationships?

 

Question 5: Geletha speaks on the misconceptions of gender roles as well as the preprogramming of boys and girls. What are your thoughts?

 

Question 6: How do you feel about marriage?